I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how to help people with their Tarot readings. I started to write a post covering a technique that I claimed would, “… Blow your mind!” But the truth is, no single technique is ever going to miraculously produce good readings, like so many things in Tarot, the circumstances will determine its success. And more often than not, it’s a combination of techniques that, when combined together, produce the best insight.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m a massive fan of techniques and I use them all the time, but what I’m saying is that there is more to learning the Tarot than just techniques. On top of techniques we have to learn the right attitude, how to relax, how to enjoy it and how to flow with it. All these additional skills combine to let the intuition of the Tarot reader flow.
So, yes we have techniques, but we also have so much more. Techniques can be learned in a relativity short space of time, while all the other personal attributes that a Tarot reader has to acquire will develop at its own pace.
So, rather than write about a killer technique that’s going to blow your mind, I thought I’d write about something that is a little bit more useful — how to troubleshoot when a Tarot readings doesn’t make sense.
Troubleshooting & The skill of asking questions!
How do we troubleshoot a Tarot reading? In a nutshell: Ask questions.
When something is confusing it is often because we don’t understand it, and the best way to translate confusion into something that makes sense is to ask questions.
I’ve recently talked about using rationality as a way to access intuition and asking questions is kind of similar; not identical by any means, but it does rely on the logical mind to get things flowing again.
If a reading gets to the stage that we need to do some troubleshooting then its because our intuition didn’t pick up on anything, or we blocked it somehow, or we had an aversion to certain cards, or we had expectations for what the spread will say. Whatever the reason, approach it by asking yourself some questions.
Here is a list of five questions to ask yourself next time a Tarot reading doesn’t make sense — and five solutions.
1. Do you have expectations?
Expectations are the killers of good Tarot readings. They destroy objectivity and impartiality.
When we do readings for friends, family or ourselves, we tend to have expectations (hopes even) for what cards should appear where. When that doesn’t happen, we can get confused.
Objectivity and impartiality aren’t easy things to develop. The truth is, humans can never be completely objective or completely impartial, all we can do is expected the unexpected.
Enter each Tarot reading with an open mind.
2. Are you having an adverse reaction to certain cards?
We all have Tarot cards that are difficult to understand or cause an adverse reaction in us. Take a moment and ask yourself, “Why does this card irritate me?”
More often than not, the reasons that the card produces such an adverse reaction is because you’re not being impartial. Sure, from a psychological perspective the adverse reaction would hint that you need to work with the character represented by that card, but on a practical level, you’re not being impartial.
Next time a Tarot card produces an adverse reaction in you, stop for a moment. Recognise that this card is producing an emotional response that is clouding your ability to interpret the other cards. Allow yourself to fully feel whatever emotions that card has invoked in you and then, let them go.
3. Are a minority of Tarot cards conflicting with the majority?
Regardless of what Tarot spread you use, there will always be a minority of cards that conflict with the majority. What do you do?
Combine the cards that are confusing you with the outcome card.
As an example: let’s take the 5 of Swords and the 9 of Swords as the cards that are confusing me with the Ace of Wands which, in our example, shall be the outcome card. A possible interpretation is to say that a career opportunity will be successful, despite attempts by a colleague to thwart it. Expect the use of underhanded methods, the
consequences of which will live with the client for a long time.
I solved my confusion by using my imagination to isolate the difficult minority. I combined them together with the outcome card, produced a snippet of a story and then, having done that, I would reintroduce them back into the overall reading.
Effectively, you combine the cards together so that they form a story. Don’t read these types of cards separately or in isolation; definitely don’t read them according to just their position within the spread. Always approach this problem by combining the cards together to form their own story, from there you can reinterpret the rest of the reading accordingly.
4. Are you confused by a bad card landing in an outcome position when all the other cards appear favorable?
As always, ask how objective or detached you’re being.
On a more practical level, try and interpret the card as something external to the client. The best way to get to grips with any Tarot card is to read it literally. If the outcome card is the 10 of Swords, then the object of the client’s question will result in failure and the ruin of their plans. Try not to read the 10 of Swords as a psychological process that the client is undergoing. Reading that way will add to your confusion. The 10 of Swords has appeared for a specific reason — to let the client know that it will fail. This is not as bad as it seems. It actually creates the possibility for free-choice. Look to the other cards to determine what things the client can do to alter the outcome.
If you’re faced with the dilemma of reading the cards as psychological processes or actual real world events, then always, always read them as objective events — never psychological.
5. Are you confused by contradictions within the spread itself?
This is another common cause of confusion. This type of problem tends to occur more when the Tarot reader uses a positional based spread as opposed to a linear based spread.
Consider the following examples:
- The spread has a position called, “What are your strengths?” Now, imagine how confusing it might be if the 5 of Swords was dealt?
- The spread has a position called, “What are your weaknesses?” Now, imagine how confusing it might be if the Sun card was dealt?
These types of contradictions will happen all the time when you read with positional based spreads. The first thing you have to do is convert the card from a passive force, into an active one. In the case of the 5 of Swords, the person’s strengths are their ability to defeat their enemies at any cost. In the case of the Sun, arrogance and vanity might be their weakness.
Remember what makes a great Tarot reading!
Learning how to troubleshoot a Tarot reading helps to develop the right attitude. This is such an important part of Tarot reading that I can’t stress it enough. It’s the attitude you bring to the reading, your objectivity, your impartiality, your ability to relax, your ability to trust, your ability to enjoy it and to flow with it, that makes all the difference. Having the patience to troubleshoot will strengthen those qualities and over time, make you a better reader.
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Hey Douglas
Great post. I especially LOVED tip #3: “I solved my confusion by using my imagination to isolate the difficult minority. I combined them together with the outcome card, produced a snippet of a story and then, having done that, I would reintroduce them back into the overall reading.” This is a great technique and very useful.
Thanks for sharing,
Theresa
Hi Theresa,
Thanks for dropping by and I’m glad you liked the post
Great post! All the tips are really useful and helpful. In my experience, problems related to tip #5 are particularly frequent. I always tried to bear in mind that there’s no such a thing as a completely bad or completely good card, so even the Eight of Swords has a good side, lol!
I also agree when you say that expectations can ruin a reading – really true.
Regards
Leo
Hi Leo,
LOL, yup even the 8 of Swords has a good side!
Glad you found the post useful
Douglas -
Excellent points! Contradictions within a spread (point number 5) happen more often or not. It is a good idea to come up with some way to deal with this – which will differ from reader to reader. Also – going into a reading with expectations! Setting the tone for the reading is extremely important.
Blessings,
Bonnie
Hi Bonnie,
I agree! “Setting the tone for the reading is extremely important.” Expect the unexpected is what i always say
Glad you liked the post
Hi Douglas,
Very useful 5 points.
@ Objectivity: When I had just started reading tarot I would get super accurate readings as I think I had no option but to be objective about the cards. I would refer the LWB as I did not know the meanings and would try and get an overall feel of the cards. But once I learnt some more, the objectivity I noticed faded a bit and my readings became less accurate. There were various ways I could read the card, the seemed blocked, influenced by neighbouring cards etc. I am in the process of trying to “distance myself in readings” these days. I will admit it, its tough going at the moment.
@ Bad card in the outcome position: …Yes, thats true. In many cases it might take on a different meaning too. I recently got 2 of swords as the outcome card for a prticular spread. If I read it as a “psychological process” it means that the querent will be confused about what do to. If s/he has requested for a reading chances are there is a delima and this certainly does not help! 2 of swords as an outcome card probably means that that there will be two ways the querent can go and they will need to make a choice.
@ contradictions within a spread: . Happens all the time. I mostly always use positional spreads. I have never tried a linear spread. But I think I will now. Maybe I will start with about 5 cards. Lets see how it goes.
Thanks!
TF
Hi Tarotfaith,
Objectivity is something that happens when you no longer have expectations for the reading. Expect the unexpected and all else will fall into place. It sounds like you’re in a transitional phase with this. You’ll get there!
I liked your example of the 2 of Swords – great insight!
Good luck with trying a linear spread. Making the transition from positional to linear takes time, but I found the time invested in learning to work this way was well worth it.
I’m glad you enjoyed the post
Wow, I can see myself in the same situation – my readings were more accurate when I didn’t know that much about the cards – ironic as it may sound.
One thing I try to keep in mind is that the Tarot is a game, after all. In a way, it’s not that different from playing. It’s “ludic”, if you know what I mean.
Utterly fantastic, Doug!
This one described some things I did and never broke down into the process before. And you’ve given a voice to something very important that is seldom discussed. Things are never “black/white”, or “good/bad,” They just are. And in every situation we have both an antagonist and a protagonist. Making the client aware of both helps them organize the process and prepare.
This should be put on every tarotist’s refrigerator….nicely done! Again!
Hi Donnaleigh,
Thanks for dropping by
Very true! Life is not black or white, and nothing is ever as simple as good or bad. The Tarot reflects this and developing ways to incorporate that aspect of life into our readings can only help to deliver a richer experience to our clients.
I’m glad you enjoyed the post
Hello,
This is a very interesting topic!
“we have to learn the right attitude, how to relax, how to enjoy it and how to flow with it. All these additional skills combine to let the intuition of the Tarot reader flow.” Love it!
I find that sometimes a spread does not make sense at all and mostly when that happens I also suddenly notice that I am really far to tired to make much sense of anything!
To be honest in that case I just pack up and go to bed. However, I note down the cards first and then spread them out again the next day. And, hey presto, most of the time, things suddenly seem at least a little clearer.
Greetings!
Hi Austriana,
Good point! So many things can influence our approach to a Tarot reading … but perhaps some of the most powerful are the cycles of the body. Tiredness, hunger etc, are all going to contribute to how much attention we can give to a reading at any one time. Taking care of those things prior to a Tarot reading will certainly help improve them. And, as you also pointed out, if we are under the influence of tiredness … delay the reading until you’re better able to concentrate.
Thank you for dropping by and adding to the conversation
Hey Douglas,
I really enjoyed this article. I agree on all points, but I am wondering if you can offer some further clarification on #4. I understand perfectly some of the examples offered by others, but you actually picked a really good one in your example, the 10 of Swords. It’s not hard for me to see that as meaning a literal failure, but what throws me off is when you mentioned the other cards in the spread as being positive. When I try to imagine different positive cards, all I think of are cards that point towards success. Maybe you can offer some more insight for this particular scenario. Thanks in advance!
Hi Dan,
Interesting question!
I’m assuming you mean, “why is it failure if all the other cards point to success?”
It’s that ‘ol saying, “somethings are not meant to be”.
Those kinds of readings show that the client has done everything right. They have crossed the T’s and dotted the I’s but, in the final analysis, they will fail. Not because there was anything more they could have done, but simply because it wasn’t meant to be.
Imagine this situation – A man is in his car and pulls up to a junction. He looks left and right and makes sure that everything is safe. He pulls out of the junction and a truck crashes into him … bang! That’s the 10 of Swords effect.
The guy didn’t do anything wrong. In fact, he did everything right. He did his best to ensure that there was no traffic on the road before he pulled out. He performed all required safety checks … but, despite all that, a Truck was there all the same.
In life, sometimes things just don’t work out. Is that Fate? Is that that inexplicable force that controls the lives of Men and Gods? I don’t know. All I do know is that these kind of readings require close attention.
It’s important with these types of Tarot readings not turn it back on the client. Don’t say something like, “Oh, your own negativity will causes problems,” or some other psychological type interpretation. It’s actually much kinder to say, “sorry, but something is going to go wrong here … and it isn’t your fault”.
Oh, I’m also not saying that the 10 of Swords is a car crash waiting to happen
. It was just a dramatic allegory that fitted the bill for the purposes of explanation.
I’m not sure I understood your question properly so if I haven’t quite answered it for you, let me know.
Nope, that was exactly what I was looking for! When you explained it that way, it makes more sense to me.
Douglas
I have been reading your posts and am impressed by the practicality of what you consistantly offer. This post was particularly helpful for me; asking questions, seeing things from a different perspective, catching new information out of the corner of your eye. Great post! I am glad that you are out there writing.
Hi Jeff,
Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate it and I’m glad you liked the post